Listen up, Men!
After you’ve spent years building yourself up—grinding, sweating, sacrificing—don’t make the mistake of becoming a retirement plan for some de.lu.sion.al and en.ti.tled vvomän who spent h3er prime years hopping from one män’s bed to another in the name of “having fun.” Those same vvõmēñ who told themselves, “I’m living my best life” in their 20s, will suddenly come looking for you when they’ve burned through their options and can no longer find the attention they crave.
They’ll hit you with, “I’ve changed,” or, “I’m ready to settle down now,” because now that they’ve exhausted their supply of high-flying thrills and toxic relationships, they’re looking for a safe landing—and that’s where they think you come in. But here’s the reality: You didn’t hustle through your 20s and 30s just to save someone who lived recklessly. That’s not your responsibility, and it’s certainly not your destiny.
You see, these vvomën aren’t offering anything of real value, just baggage, regrets, and inflated self-entitlement. They’ll say, “I deserve a good män now,” but the truth is, they haven’t earned a man like you. A man who has spent years building himself into an Alpha, a man who has his finances in check, his values solidified, his discipline honed. You deserve better.
You’re not here to pick up the pieces of some.one else’s reck.less life. You deserve a vvomän of high value—a vvomän who kept her standards high, kept her virginity intact, and respected herself enough not to play the foolish game of “hot girl summer” at the expense of her future.
The truth is, a high-value vvomän is rare, but she’s worth the wait. She’s the vvomän who understands what it means to respect a man, who was raised well by her father and mother, and who doesn’t come to you with baggage, issues, and endless demands. She knows h3er worth, but unlike the de.lu.sional ones, she doesn’t need to sëll you on it—her actions speak louder than her words.
She isn’t the vvomän who’s hitting her 30s, panicking because the well has dried up, and now she wants to settle down. No. She’s the vvomän who made wise decisions from day one—who focused on her growth, her values, and her future. She knew that one day she would meet a mân like you, and sh.e wasn’t about to waste h3er prime years jump.ing from one bed to another, kill.ing h3er soul and self-worth in the process.
The en.tit.led vvomën of today think they can have it all. They think they can spend their 20s running wild, us.ing mën for attention, money, and whatever else they can get, only to turn around and find a “good man” to settle down with when it’s convenient for them. That’s the trap, fellas. They’re hoping you’ll be dumb enough to fall for it.
But here’s the hard truth: You’re not their backup plan. You’re not there to clean up their mess or save them from the consequences of their poor decisions. If she dis.res.pect.ed herself in her 20s, sh.e’s not going to suddenly transform into the wife material you deserve just because she’s run out of other options.
Go for the high-value vvomân—the one who knows what it means to be feminine, a virgin (or one who is not but has placed value on herself after realizing her mistakes genuinely), nurturing, respectful, and who values your leadership as a man. She’s not here for your money or status; she’s here because she sees real value in you as a person, and she wants to build with you, not take from you.
Don’t waste your time on vvomën who have nothing left to offer but their past mistakes. You’ve worked too hard, sacrificed too much, and built too solid a foundation to waste it on someone who only sees you as a retirement plan.
Stay sharp, stay vigilant, and choose wisely. Your value is too high to settle for anything less. Remember, you’re not here to be anyone’s Plan B—you’re the Alpha, and you deserve a vvomän who understands that and respects you for who you are. Don’t let some en.tit.led, de.lus.ional vvomän ruin what you’ve built with h3er sob stories and fake redemption arcs.
Demand respect.
Demand loyalty.
Demand character.
And most importantly, demand value—because that’s what you’ve spent your whole life building, and that’s what you deserve in return.
Credit: Aklahyel Goni
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