Challenges of Dating a Single Mother
Dating a single mother can come with unique challenges. Here are some common issues that may arise:
1. Never available.
A single mother's schedule is never clear. Single mothers are the type of women who frequently cancel dates at the last minute.
Something always prevents a man from spending quality time with her.
It's difficult to have a relationship with her because she is never present.
2. You're not a priority. Usually, when in a relationship with a single mother, the man comes in last.
Behind her are her children, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, and the clogged toilet.
Even the dog receives more care and affection than a man in a relationship with a single mother.
Any man who gets connected with a single mother ends up becoming a fifth-stringer in a relationship. And he is rarely called up to play.
3. She believes the world revolves around her and only her.
A single mother is one of the most narcissistic individuals in the dating world.
She frequently believes that a man must abandon all else in order to be a part of her and her children's lives.
They're so selfish; they don't believe men have needs, wants, or a life of their own.
He's only supposed to be there to give her whatever she desires in life.
4. The baby's ex-daddy is always around.
A man simply doesn't have to deal with a single mother.
He also has to deal with her ex-partner, or baby daddy. And this person is constantly hovering over you like a helicopter, trying to c*ckblock you.
Some of these men still believe they have a chance of getting back together with her.
Others simply don't want to see her happy. Many of these men wish to forget her. Seriously, they're playing a game together.
They will continue to play this game with their children until they are 18 or 21. Head for the exit.
Dealing with this moron and his insecure bullsh*t is simply not worth it.
5. Emotional unavailability.
Most single mothers are unable to enter into serious relationships with men because their emotions are invested in other people.
As a rule, their primary focus is on their children.
In addition to devoting themselves to their children, most single mothers have dedicated their hearts to someone else: the father of their children.
And the feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you.
A single mother will always keep a certain distance from the new man in her life.
6. The children are working against you.
When dealing with a single mother, you must also consider the children.
Children still believe that Dad will return and adore them. Get the hell out of there.
7. Those youngsters are going to detest you.
They'll act out to keep you from getting too close to Mommy.
They will make accusations against you in order to bring you into trouble.
Again, it's simply not worth dealing with the BS of being with a female.
There are four billion women across the world.
You can find a good woman who doesn't have all this baggage or cause you so much stress.
8. Entitled attitude Single mothers believe that because they had a baby outside of marriage, the world owes them everything.
And she believes she is the one who deserves the best.
Even though she normally receives poverty, food stamps, or child support, she believes she is entitled to be treated like a queen because she gave birth to a child through her vag:na.
Men are still expected to take her to the best restaurants and buy her extravagant gifts, according to their delusional, twisted worldview.
He's also obliged to look after her children, buying them whatever they desire while ignoring their misbehavior.
9. Always play the victim.
By default, a woman doesn't feel responsible for anything, but it's even worse with single mothers.
Single mothers rarely accept responsibility for their actions.
They constantly blame their father, their children, their mother or someone else for their predicament.
They never take the time to examine themselves or try to change their lives.
They're always looking for some rich, incredible man to put on a cape and play the role of Captain Savior, who will sweep her off her feet and save her from the dangerous situation she's helped create.
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